Success Rolls Uphill
Four Simple Steps to Manage Your Boss
Conventional business communication has been always been defined from the top down. There are limitless books, seminars, and online resources on top-down management you can access any time.
However, this is not the case for managing up. Middle management continues to struggle to effectively influence executive management, which is crucial to business survival.
Not only should middle managers be able to listen to the problems and challenges of their direct reports, but they should be able to influence a positive change going upward in the organization.
Upward management may be the most important skill set to hone and own, particularity in the volatility of todays economy. Who better to have your back than the boss who is front of you all the time?
The following four-step approach is chock full of nuggets that are simple, but potent. These are not about sucking up or being a yes man or woman; rather, these are practical behaviors that require diligence, courage, and transparency. You just may find that youd like to be managed by your direct reports in similar fashion.
Step One: Choose Good Timing
Part of knowing the right timing is setting expectations with your boss upfront, but if you havent covered this ground, or the scope of responsibility has changed for either of you, it may be time to realign. Rather than assume what seems appropriate, consider these tips when timing your connections:
If you and your boss have travel schedules not conducive to face-to-face dialogue, simply inquire, when can I get you on the phone for 20 minutes? Id really like your input.
When you have something heavier to discuss, inform your boss about the importance of the matter. Many employees will try to connect with their boss once or twice, and when they dont get the attention they need, they harbor resentment. While its frustrating, chances are your boss is buried with work like you, and availability may be at a premium. Stay on him or her, and be tactfully persistent.
Discover the best times for your boss and yourself to speak. Designated times may end up saving time and building strong communication, fueling better results.
Step Two: Understand How Your Boss Prefers Information
Perhaps the most common error employees make is they deliver information in the opposite manner that their boss prefers receiving it. This does little to help their connection or personal market value.
A month ago, I gained insight on this topic from my brother, who is a partner at a Chicago law firm. He responded, some bosses want you to issue-spot, meaning quickly identify the issue you need input on and get to the point. Others want context and background around the subjects being addressed. Were often accused of not listening, but it poses a challenge when youre coming to us with the wrong approach.
So, how does one know what the preferred communication is with the boss? Eliminate uncertainty by asking so you can provide the highest value on a consistent basis.
Other tips to consider:
Be succinct and to the point. Even if your boss prefers context and background, avoid rambling on.
State upfront why youre coming and what youre hoping to gain from the encounter. Theres nothing worse than explaining your situation to your boss, and after five minutes he or she interrupts and politely says, Im sorry, Susan, what exactly can I help you with?
Bring solutions to problems. Sure, you are approaching your boss for answers and feedback, but he or she wants to know youve thought it through. The less time they have to spend solving your problems, the more they value your contribution.
Do your best to be clinical and emotionally controlled. Often what stands out above anything is your ability to demonstrate passion and confidence, providing you remain cool and in control. Emotional intelligence is key.
Step Three: Align Understanding
When wondering about the perception of his performance, my client John from New York once told me, I really dislike the one-time annual review. I need to know how Im doing more often so I can constantly improve.
When I asked him what he does about it, he replied, every six to eight weeks, I approach my boss and ask him two questions: What am I doing well? and Where can I improve?
Johns approach may be slightly more frequent than you prefer, but its so much better than the guessing game that comes with anxiety or fear, particularly in todays unstable market. A different client inquired about the approach he should take to get into a business-development position with his company. I told him, approach your boss and tell him youd like to get into business development, and state the value you believe you can provide. When in doubt, ask.
Step Four: Follow Up and Live Your Word
Few things in managing up are more demoralizing than a boss who doesnt follow up or get back to you on issues that are important to you and seemed the same to them. This is why its critical to capture information in writing during the meeting so they know youre retaining exchanged data and expect execution.
Also, as often as possible, agree on times and dates to follow up on issues discussed so you can diplomatically hold your boss accountable.
When your boss can rely on you, loyalty is more likely to be reciprocated. Establish trust through deadline-driven behavior and prompt response time.
The road to success upward is one that can be gratifying and rewarding. In a time of uncertainty, it can be a path that is safe and secure. Consider these steps and remember that you are judged on your behavior, performance, and results, not on your intentions.
Joe Takash is a keynote speaker and the CEO of performance management firm Victory Consulting, based in LaGrange Park, Ill.;www.joetakash.com